Oh lord thank you. I love how you addressed that having a baby isn't a way to "fix" a relationship. Too many couples fall into this trap--including my parents (say hello to a "fixer"-baby). I get frustrated reading stories where a sudden pregnancy heals all problems and everyone dances off into the sunset with their prop baby, when my own experience and psychology classes inform me that a very different ending is most likely.

The bittersweet of this is amazing and tangible. Very well handled. I salute you.